I can't resist sė̃x with best friend, even though he's gay

I AM female and my best friend is a gay guy, but we had sė̃x recently and now we can’t keep our hands off one another.

I am a 20-year-old student and last year met this guy in the uni bar. He’s 21 and we hit it off and he came clean that he was gay. Only I knew and have been totally supportive, especially since he broke up with his long term boyfriend back home.

We are best of friends, hang out together all the time, go shopping, tell one another everything and have no secrets. We have also always been quite flirty and people comment on our chemistry.

A few months ago a room came free in my house so he moved in. We often stay up all night in his or my room, chatting and listening to music. Term’s over but we are both staying on to work during the vacation.

Last week we had the house to ourselves, we watched a movie, had a bit to drink, and ended up having sė̃x. It has happened a few times since and whenever we’re alone we kiss passionately.

We have chatted and he insists he still likes guys, but says he has been thinking about us for the past month. We don’t want things to get complicated or to lose our friendship, so we are not ready to come clean to everyone. Some friends and family might be judgmental plus our whole situation is confusing enough already.